Chrome and Skin: 4/24/11

How to manage stress?


As stress is an individual's perception and assessment of the environment, 
one needs to look into the possibility of changing one’s perception and the reaction 
to it. In fact, the ideal change will be to convert our reaction to response. 
So what is the difference between reaction and response? 

Reaction is habitual, uncontrolled, and impulsive while response is well
thought, contemplated act with awareness. A responsible person responds
and never reacts. Responsibility is one’s ability to respond.
How do we proceed? 



1. Awareness of Stressors: 

Become aware of your stressors. Watch your physical and emotional reactions 
to stressors. Do you become nervous or physically upset? Notice the situations 
and events that create high levels of stress. Understand how your body responds 
to the stress. 



2. Breath Awareness: 

Bring your attention to your breath. Breath awareness will 
make you more aware to notice various aspects of stress, situation and 
its effects on your body-brain system. Breath awareness will bring the 
understanding of the dominant nostril. At any given time, we have one 
dominant nostril and one blocked nostril. The dominance and the blockage
can be of varied degrees.


3. Change the dominant nostril: 

This is one of the oldest secret of “Shiv 
Swarodaya” or Swar Yoga. As you become aware of stress and the dominant 
nostril, simplest thing to do now is to block the dominant nostril by 
pressing thumb on that nostril and breathe through the other nostril for
twenty one times. Normally this is sufficient to change the nostril and
stop the setting in of the stress. This simple method works in a 
miraculous manner to manage stress! 



4. Practice “Nirmal Kriya”: 

Nirmal Kriya is one of the most powerful 
methods to eliminate stress instantly. It takes only half a minute to 
practice it. Here is how you go about it…

Start with a couple of deep breaths. 

Now start with four short breaths and end with a long breath. 
During the long breath exhalation, create friction in the throat
region. (This is known as Ujjayi Pranayam). This makes the train of 
five connected breaths. Repeat such train five times and you have 
completed 25 connected breaths Nirmal Kriya. You can do it standing, 
sitting or sleeping positions. You can repeat it every hour or anytime 
you feel you are drifting into the stressful situation.


5. Change your Attitudes: 

Become more positive. Look at every situation in a positive manner, 
including the stressful situations. 

In fact we learn our best lessons of life from the worst situations! 



6. Set your Goals right: 

Practice SMART Goal setting. Let each of your goal be 
Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time bound. Pursue 
realistic goals which are meaningful to you, rather than goals others 
have for you that you do not share.


7. Manage your Time: 

Practice Time management techniques and manage your life 
accordingly. Prepare the list of things to do every day morning. Set 
your priorities right. Follow your own system to the extent possible and
also be flexible to change your system to suit your new environment


8. Improve your EQ: 

Emotional quotient is based on Emotional Intelligence. 
Reduce the intensity of your emotional reactions to stress. The stress 
reaction is triggered by your perception of emotional danger. Are you 
viewing your stressors in exaggerated terms? Are you over-reacting and 
viewing things as absolutely critical and urgent? Work at adopting more 
moderate views; try to see the stress as something you can cope with 
rather than something that overpowers you. Put the situation in 
perspective.


9. Take care of your body: 

Exercise for cardiovascular fitness three to four 
times a week Moderate, prolonged rhythmic exercise is best, such as 
walking, swimming, cycling, or jogging. Practice Yoga regularly. Eat 
well-balanced, nutritious meals. Maintain your ideal weight. Avoid 
nicotine, excessive caffeine, and other stimulants. Get enough sleep. Be
as consistent with your sleep schedule as possible. 


10. Take it easy: 

Mix leisure with work. Take breaks and get away whenever you can.
Develop some mutually supportive friendships and relationships. Frustrations, 
failures, and sorrows are part of our life, for learning lessons. Always
be kind and gentle with yourself, be a friend to yourself.

Stress Management


The fast pace of life is taking toll on every city dweller, right from students 
to home makers and workers to managers, every body is hit by the bug of 
the stress. Modern technological development and communication aids are 
adding to the stress because of their high speed. Traveling, exams, 
admissions etc. at times are too stressful for students as well as 
parents living hectic lifestyle. Stressed individuals are paying heavy 
toll in terms of health and well being as they are more prone to stress 
induced diseases such as headaches, upset stomach, rashes, insomnia, 
ulcers, high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke. Most people get 
trapped into the vicious circle of stress induced diseases and find it 
difficult to tackle it at later stage. Hence it is very important for us
to learn to manage the stress.


So what is stress?


Stress is an individual's perception and assessment of the environment. It 
depends on how one perceives the situation. The positive perception is 
called eustress while negative perception will lead to distress. The 
amount of stress at which each individual functions most effectively is 
unique to each individual and it is known as optimum stress level (OSL).
 
Any response, mental or physical, which adversely affects performance, is called
negative stress response.
That which creates stress is called stressor. There are different types of lifestyle
stressors:

Performance Stressors:

These are situations where one is stressed to perform, viz. 
Driving a car, public speaking, performance appraisal, big events in 
one's life viz. Exams, marriage etc.

Threat Stressors:

These are situations perceived as dangerous, viz.: Riots, War,
High risk sport, accidents etc.

Boredom Stressors:

These are situations which are perceived and assessed as 
lacking in physical or mental stimulation, Viz. Household chores, 
Routine factory work etc. 

Frustration Stressors:

These are situations which are perceived and assessed as being undesirable but 
beyond one's power to control, Viz. Govt. Taxation.

Bereavement Stressors:

Loss of relationship, Death of loved one, losing a Job,
possession or Reputation, dignity etc. 

Physical Stressors:


Actual physical damage viz. breaking limbs, suffering from disease or 
infection, working in conditions where extreme temperature and pollution
exists which can not be avoided.


Effect of Positive Stress:

As we have seen, positive stress adds anticipation and excitement to life, 
and we all thrive under a certain amount of stress. Deadlines, competitions,

confrontations, and even our frustrations and sorrows add 
depth and enrichment to our lives. Our goal is not to eliminate stress 
but to learn how to manage it and how to use it to help us. Insufficient
stress acts as a depressant and may leave us feeling bored or dejected;
on the other hand, excessive stress may leave us feeling "tied up in 
knots." What we need to do is find the optimal level of stress which 
will individually motivate but not overwhelm each of us. If you are 
experiencing stress symptoms, you have gone beyond your optimal stress 
level; you need to reduce the stress in your life and improve your 
ability to manage it.